Thursday, July 6, 2017

Go With The Flow

Along For The Ride
Book 1:
Go With The Flow; The Early Years
By Tabby



Authors Note:
My life has had hardships, challenges, dreams, friends, family, and love. This is the combined story of my double life. Some of the details may be altered - such as names and secrets that are not mine to tell. Names may also be spelled phonetically because many letters in the non-human languages don’t exist in English. This is my true biography from my point of view. My life as Super Girl Queen in a human life and the struggles of being bipolar. I have been dreading writing this for a long time. This is because my life is full of secrets: secrets of friends, family, and my own.
Now, finally, I feel that I can put my life story on paper. So, here it is.

Chapter 1.
I was born in the bedroom of my Mom, Sameeah, on September 2, 1996, around noon. Years later, my Mom explained to me her dream of becoming the mother of a Super Girl Queen. She had made a deal with her girl friend that the first single baby she had would be a candidate in the election of the Super Girl Queen. I was born barely in time because in order to be a candidate, I needed to be two years old by September 3, 1998. Several days after my birth, I began taking medication to alter the rate and sequence of my development. I not only had to learn basic magic but also train for battle at the same time. Picture being in an accident and having to re-learn how to walk and talk, then in just a few weeks having to run a marathon and finish in the top 10. I also had to learn hundreds of languages and give speeches in all of them on live TV. Mom pushed me hard. Then to throw another curve ball into the mix, she told me that I was to get a human home on my six month birthday. I spent my days regressing into a baby, and my nights training hard, giving speeches, and studying. As for my super girl physical development, by six months I was standing, flying, and almost walking. People loved me - a great reward for hard work.

Shortly before I turned two years old, there were just two of us left in the election. The other candidate was more than 600 years old. She had been a battle girl for years. We went to get our minds tested to see if we were secretly for the devil. The other candidate had always seemed full of

herself and over-confident, but at that moment she was shaking and sweating. I remember being sympathetic. I told her I believed in her - an act I will always regret. I, having fewer votes in the primaries, went first. In front of cameras and news crews, I took my seat. Lights flashed green as the printer printed out a full clean record.

Then the other candidate got onto the chair. Red lights flashed. Sirens blew. The printer printed out lots of paper sheets with all of her plans to destroy the earth and the super girl culture. Guards quickly came and locked her up. Later that day, Aseeka (the presiding queen) and I decided that the other candidate should never be in power. We ordered that she have a species change to human. Because of her age, she became an 85 year old human. She died shortly after. She is the gods' problem now. My guess is that her forever is way shortened, if not gone. Siding with the super boys to the point of purposefully doing their dirty work and treason is not a simple crime.

After that, support for me rocketed. I became SGQ, the youngest in billions of years.


Chapter 2.
Meanwhile, I was told to be a troublesome baby in my human life. This was easy because I was so tired after a hard night of training. I quickly learned that if I refused to sleep, I wouldn't have to leave to train. But Sameeah, my Mom, pushed me to keep going. My human parents, Alison and David, took me to lots of children's activities, and I also spent time with my grandparents, Nana and Pop. I loved to watch Sesame Street. I think it was a distraction. I wanted to be moving constantly in order to keep myself from going crazy with pains from fast training. On my second birthday, Aseeka had a party for me. Nothing big, just Aseeka, Jenna (her BFF), Mom (Sameeah) and me. We had cake and watched movies. The next day I was crowned queen.

For the coronation, Aseeka dressed me in a traditional silver and gold royal ball gown. I stepped out in front of the crowd and cameras. Aseeka stepped down by taking the oath of exiting officer. For the brief moment

between her stepping down and my stepping up, the crowd was dead silent. After I had taken the oath and was finally queen, Mom gave me a big hug. I could feel the pride in her. Later, I asked Aseeka about the silence at the ceremony. She explained that about 1,000 years ago, after a presiding queen took the oath to step down, the new queen would not accept the queenship. “What happened?” I asked. “She was young,” Aseeka responded. “Not as young as you are, but less than 100.” I never got more information on the topic.

I was followed by news crews and cameras for the entire night. As the sun was rising, I sat with Sameeah, my Mom, alone. The party was over. My Mom told me that years earlier she had gone to a future teller. The future teller had predicted that I wouldn’t want to go into medicine like the rest of my family, and that I would probably end up as a maid in someone's house. Then Mom told me that she was sorry for putting me through such hard training and lack of baby sleep. I laughed and said, “This beats cleaning!” The smile on her face, I will never forget. It was full of love and hope. We hugged and I left for my human home.

A few days later, I had my first set of super girl kids. Six. The first few, I put into human homes. The rest, I let stay in the royal daycare. But my first born super girl became my human sister, known in human circles as Mackenzie.
I spent many hours with my human family and first daughter. When I wasn't with them, but still on earth, I was at my preschool: Raintree Montessori, I loved it there. We learned to count, sort, and write in cursive. They taught us to write this way because young kids learn to draw in loops first, before lines and blocks. We did lessons such as displacement of water, shell sorting, and counting. We sang songs about skip counting, science, geography, and patriotic songs, as well as little kid songs. By age four, I counted to 1,000 for the first time. I stopped because I got bored.
As a group we counted to 100 many times.

On my last day of preschool I can remember riding to school. I was so upset. I can remember my Mom, Alison, saying that my teacher might let me stay for a week until kindergarten starts. My response came quick and


through tears: "No! I want Nana to take me to the pool!" Nana took me to the pool every Wednesday. I never had a real vacation except for holidays. My human parents always had me in summer school. At that point, I didn't know that other kids my age had school off in the summer. So, I said my goodbyes to Raintree.
Through all this, since Mackie had become part of our life, Nana had been taking care of her and picking me up after school. This continued for most of my school years.

Chapter 3
On my third birthday, lots of life changing stuff happened. The first was that we moved into a new home. I can remember sleeping on the floor in what would become Mackie's room. That night - the night of my third birthday - I had a super girl party. I invited any super girl who wanted to come. I stood on a balcony and watched the crowd. Aseeka had told me to be proper. Then I saw her - Cletzo. I flew in a rush off the balcony. I knew I had to meet her. It was love at first sight. Cletzo was a dream come true. So much for proper.
Cletzo came over with her daughter, Harper. The next year would be the best and yet most stressful of my life. By day, I had to regress to a preschool age. By night, there were super girl parties, speeches, family time, battle training, olympic swinging and, of course, love. When I wasn't in the Royal Yards, cameras followed me everywhere. I made new friends: Victoria, Diamond, Crystal, and Morel were my nightclub buddies. Jessica and Windy were originally my assistants but soon were extremely close BFFs. Aseeka was my mentor - she taught me all there was to know. She took over leading battles until I felt ready to take over. Her best friend, Jenna, became like an older sister to me, as well as a close friend. Both Aseeka and Jenna taught me to dance.
After six months of dating, Clezto and I were married. Only close friends and family were invited to the ceremony, but the public was welcomed at the reception.

Chapter 4
I was pleased when I learned that Jessica was moving in as a human next door to Nana's house. We staged a set-up meeting. It was October. Nana and I were on her back porch carving pumpkins. Jessica came along the back fence. I had to work hard not to show that we knew each other. Nana invited her in to help us carve the pumpkins. After that, we became friends as humans. She came over to Nana's house a lot.

Chapter 5
The next few months I spent madly in love with Cletzo. We performed many shows. Our shows consisted of Cletzo singing while Harper and I danced. We also gave speeches. My speeches were mostly about how apologetic the Royal Party and I were for my competitors' hopes. The rest of my time was spent with family and friends. Victoria, Diamond, Crystal, Jessica and Windy became like my family. During the day I continued to go to school at Raintree until I turned five and was old enough for kindergarten. Because of my birth date (September 2nd) the school district required me to spend a third year in preschool. This meant that I turned six in my first year of elementary school. My class was morning kindergarten at Hillcrest School with Mr. Lominska.
But before I even finished preschool, my romance was torn apart when Cletzo was invited to assist with some events on another planet. This planet was more than 100 light years away. Our communication was limited. Our relationship was stressed. However, our love stayed strong.

Chapter 6
I enjoyed going to school at Hillcrest. In kindergarten we sang songs and did letter pages. In first grade I did activities like rainbow spelling and more letter pages. I got excited when I learned that Harper was in my class. We became friends as humans just like Jessica and I did. However, Harper and I became best friends. To cope with Cletzo being gone, I became obsessed with Harper. She lived across the street from Nana's house and came over for a play day every Wednesday after school. We did this in the summertime, too. Nana took us swimming at the Freestate pool.

By second grade Harper had found a new friend. Somehow this new girl, Chloe, took all of Harper's time. I began to feel as if she didn’t want to be human friends. At night in Super Girl we still spent almost all our time together.
At the end of the school year Harper apologized and told me how much Chloe was obsessed with her, and how Chloe would cry if she said no to anything. I told her it was OK and that I understood. I knew she knew what I meant. Basically, I could comprehend what Chloe was going through (her parents had divorced as Harper's had), however, understanding didn’t make me feel better, and I wasn't OK with Harper not telling me, before.

Chapter 7
By this time, I had been to see several doctors to address mental health concerns. I was told I had a form of ADD/ADHD. When in kindergarden, I took buspar every 2 hours.
As I got older, I began to add some meds and stop others - trading them in and out.
I came up with ways to manage mood and meds. A graphing chart was created, ranging from -5 to +5. A -5 was as sad as suicidal, and a +5 was so manic that jumping off the roof seemed OK because I thought I could fly.
This description was given by my human mother. At this point she didn’t know I could fly. I have been lucky that I have never gone to these extremes. I have rarely ever been as low as a -4.
This system was a coordinate grid with the the time of day along the bottom and the mood scale along the left side. Over the course of the day, I would put a dot where I was on the graph. At the end of the day I would connect the dots.
On the back of the chart was a table for the people who gave me my meds to sign and note the time. Over the years, I have been glad to be able to get my own meds.

Chapter 8
When I got to third grade, I was in Ms. Green’s class. We had a money system called Becker bucks, named after our principal at Hillcrest.
Students made crafts to sell for Becker bucks. We also earned Becker bucks by doing our work and paying attention.
The Market Days were fun, but would have been better if I hadn't been so bullied. In the halls, my classmates would run as far away from me as they could, yelling “eeewww!” I thought that happened to all the kids so it seemed OK. But one day I mentioned it to my human Mom and was very surprised at her reaction. She called my principal and told her that she expected the bullying to stop.
To make things worse, Harper was in a different homeroom class. Luckily, we all went to different teachers for different subjects. Initially, Harper and I were in the same advanced science class. I remember one day being told that I was to be moved from that science class to the regular science class. To me this was insulting. I knew that I could do all the work the other kids in the advanced class could do.
One nice thing was a girl named Cleo. Aside from Harper, she was the only one of my human peers who was nice to me. I felt so grateful to her that I enrolled her in a species change program. This program consisted of many medical treatments to change her from a human to a super girl.

Chapter 9
By fourth grade I finally got to hear from Cletzo. To hear from her was a dream come true. It is hard to imagine how painful it is not to be in contact with the one you love. But she still wasn’t coming home. And life went on. Harper and I, as well as Jessica, Windy, Mom, Aseeka, and Jenna celebrated with me. The rest of my one time super girl friends had stopped hanging out with me. When Cletzo left, I stopped clubbing and partying, so we former super girl friends didn’t connect as well. In super girl school I learned as many languages as possible, learned the power of colors, and yoga. I also took dance classes and music lessons. I was trying to keep as busy as possible in order to keep my thoughts away from Cletzo.

On earth, school got a little better. I wasn't harassed and called gross. However, no one would talk to me or let me join in. When I asked a peer a question, she would look at me as if I were an annoying bug, buzzing in her ear. After a few minutes of staring, she would answer. I felt like a peasant trying to ask nobility to work with them in a group. Trying to contribute in a group, I was given a look that said, “You don’t get to talk! Who the hell do you think you are?!?!?” I would like to say that this changed quickly after that year, but my social skills and confidence were nearly gone.

chapter 10
Fifth grade was a better year. Harper was in my class. At this point, we were still having playday Wednesdays. However, Harper was showing less and less interest in me as a human. At night we took super girl classes and studied hard. In the daytime, I began to get frustrated by Harper’s yearly change of friends.
I also became anxious that Harper was keeping something from me. I was so afraid that she didn’t want to be human friends. One thing I’m not proud of is that on one of the few days Harper was home sick, I asked one of her other friends what Harper thought of me. The friend's answer was one of disgust. She said Harper was sickened by my paranoid ways.

I think by this point it was clear that I wasn’t mentally stable. Crying had become common over the past few years. I had a problem with body language as well as with knowing how to be social. My social life problems were only beginning.

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